[RP TownTalk] Request for Civility and List Moderation Policy (was Re: Ice storm clean up)

[Alan Thompson]

On Feb 21, 2007, at 8:21 PM, Jennifer Gerwig wrote:

> Also for personal curiosity:  How long does a person
> stay on moderated status

To date, the policy regarding moderation has been:

(1) People are moderated when the list moderator (that would be me!) 
thinks they have violated the posting guidelines.
(2) They are removed from the moderation list when they tell the list 
moderator that they have read (re-read?) the guidelines, understand 
that someone (not necessarily them) might have thought that their note 
violated the guidelines, and agree that, to the best of their ability, 
they will abide by the posting guidelines in future postings.

Councilmember Oppenheim is developing a more formal set of guidelines

As a refresher, I have included (at the end of this message) the 
posting guidelines for the list, taken from the website where you sign 
up for the list at 
(http://riverdale-park.org/mailman/listinfo/towntalk).

As moderator, I'd appreciate it if we could *all* work to keep this 
list respectful and productive.

The conversation that has led to this post has resulted in at least one 
person signing off from the list.

Regards,
Alan Thompson
E-mail List Administrator and Acting Webmaster
Town of Riverdale Park Website & TownTalk Listserve

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